IT'S DAVID HOE'S BIRTHDAY!
Thursday, December 31, 2009 / 3:09 AM
haha, my title is random because that's the first thing that came into my mind when i was thinking for a title.
anyhow,
happy birthday my dear friend! (:
this year, he didnt bug me and reminding me about his birthday...
phew.. i wonder who is his "lucky" new target for constant reminders of his birthday theme?
LOL.
in less then 24 hours, i have to wave my hands hard to bid year 2009 goodbye!
and at the same time, i will open my both arms to welcome year 2010!
i can say that 2010 would be a year of uncertainties, but i believe that i am in good hands. (:
i will happily graduate from republic poly and most likely entering into the working world.
well, not that i am very willing to, but i don't have much choices... right?
anyhow, i know that my future's in good hands. (:
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i know that everyone that's surviving on this face of the earth has their weak side.
you are lying if you were to claim that you are always strong and optimistic about everything.
i know not how to phrase my thoughts well now, prolly due to my throbbing headache.
but nonetheless, i just wanna say that giving people a chance to explain, to reconcile, to voice out whatever they have to say is very important.
yes, you might be very upset or hurt by this particular person...
you might give out many warning signals before but yet that person didnt catch any of them.
BUT, when things blew up and went out of control.. no matter who is at fault most...
we should give one another a chance to clarify and voice out.
imagine this with me...
you said or did something wrong.. you wanted to apologized, wanted that person to hear you out..
but you wasnt given a chance...
how would you feel?
lonely? unforgiven? condemned? yada yada...
personally, i am someone who tends to hide myself when things went out of control.
but i know clearly that hiding is not the solution.
you may be very hurt now, but think in another light..
the person who hurt you ain't feeling any better.
why not face the music and solve them?
why hurt yourself and others?
i am not pointing fingers at any particular person.
but people, i am talking objectively..
would you want people to just shut their doors on your face when you need them to hear you out?
no matter who is at fault, no matter what kind of conclusion you want...
at the very least, settling the issues are always better than leaving everything hanging and allow the scar to remain there forever.
if i am that person who did wrong... i must felt really upset with myself and lonely..
because i wasnt given a chance to explain, to reconcile and i lost someone important forever...
if i am the one, i would rather the person i hurt to bash me up or to correct me than being tortured in my heart forever because i have no chance to even apologized.
friends, don't torture people.
give them a second chance for you will need them one day too.
come out and face it, i believe that God will bring you through this (:
i may not understand a thing..
but i do know that how precious it is when second chance is given (:
not easy, i know.
but is it easier to leave things hanging and remain hurt for life or to pick up your courage and reconcile and be happy again?
your choice.
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i have something to announce...
TINGS WILL BE OFFICIALLY
21 GOING ON 22 IN LESS THAN 24 HOURS TIME!
OMGZX!!!!!!!
1. tings charis