1. tings charis
2. 黄詩婷
3. 19th September 1988
4. 23 years old
5. Pre-school Teacher
6. Hope Church Singapore
7. tingscharis@gmail.com


Greetings,
ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls
tings is really very proud to have you in her humble cyber world.
before you turn the door knob and enter into her world,
you may want to take a small note on what she is going to say here...

keep your fingers to yourself, do not judge.
tings is fully aware that this ain't behind any closed door
and hence, what you read is not what she is, totally.
read and go, do not make any conclusions on your own.
mere concerns are appreciated, anything beyond that line are not welcomed.

have grace and mercy upon her
she is indeed not as good as you think.

sign off, tings charis :)




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YOURWILL

Time can bring two person together but time can draw two person apart too.
There's a reason why most long distance relationship don't work out. 
There's also a reason why most of your primary school besties didn't make it to your future.
When people spend very minimal time together, eventually other things will replace and make up the rest of their time. 
That's when couples break up, friendships' gone and everything fades.
It was said that distance makes a heart grew founder, but I say, distance makes a heart grew further, if it took a really long time. 


Being busy is inevitable in our lives. 
Although it is given a law of 24 hours, but I felt that time is a very subjective thing. 
You cannot produce time but you can make time. 
忙 ＝ 心亡; think about it, are you a machine or a human?
Every route we decide on, there's always something to gain and of cos, something to lose too.
So its always a give and take affair, its all about which is more worthy.


The storyline of a typical drama never fails to have this particular character who has his or her family broken due to the lack of time spent together as a family; probably because the mum or the dad is a workaholic.
Does it rings a bell to you?
No matter how valid the reason is for being too busy, no one loves to be neglected.
Its an extreme difficult thing to wear a smile and be understanding when you are neglected.
Sometimes, it doesn't mean that when I can understand, I don't feel upset.
Back to the drama, when the family is broken, do we blame the mum for not being understanding that the dad has to work or do we blame the dad for being too busy and neglect his family?


I was once a ministry machine. Haha.
But I didn't regret being one.
However, its the fact that I neglected many areas, in my life, around my life.
I missed many parts of my friends' life, I neglected my family.
Now, I won't say I will not involve myself in ministry...
I will never give up God for my friends. 
but I will never give up friends for ministry. 
I felt that humans are relation animals, not machine.
Yes, investing in people's life are good, but will it be still a good cause if u were to neglect those who walk alongside with you in your journey of life?
If I really want both, I will make sure I can balance both, very well.
If I can't, I will not missed out in my important pple's life.
When u finally have time to breathe, would u regret neglecting ur important ones?


Busy people wouldn't feel e pain of losing the pple around them.
Cause they simply have no time to feel so.
They probably wun know that they have lost anyone...
Physically, it may seems unchanged or untouched.
But who knows that deep in your neglected friend's heart, they have given up waiting and given up investing.


I think its pretty much a choice thing.
We take it for granted that after our busy stage of life, our friends will still be there waiting.
But no one wants to wait forever, no one wants to be neglected forever.
Whether they want it or not, or whether you like it or not..
Eventually something or someone will replace u in their lives.
Even if there is a possibility to make up with the time that's lost, the fact that you have indeed missed out in that part of this person's life, do you think that there will be any antidote to savage this lost?


Busy is an excuse.
Cause I sincerely believe that if you are sincere enough, you will make effort and most importantly, you will MAKE TIME for that person even when it means to sacrifice certain things.
Your life is get shorter every sec as the clock ticks.
As the clock is ticking your life away, who and what will you choose to invest in?
If you don't make time for your impt pple in life, you are bound to lose them.
Would you feel pain that you chose not to spend time with them when they needed you most?